Popular contrarian beliefs

Contrary to popular belief, many popular beliefs of my generation, I think, are contrarian in nature!

What am I - 1

(Pantheistic Religiosity + Individualistic Spirituality) - (Ritualism + Idolatry + Dogma) = ? 

Your answer is your judgment of me. Judge me as if I care!

Ideas & people

I'm fine when ideas challenge me but not when people challenge me. For, in the former it's my thought that is challenged, whereas in the latter, it's my ego that is challenged!